Thursday, November 29, 2012

"E.T. phone home."

For Your Consideration:  Seeking a New Work Challenge

With a strong desire to continue to use my accumulated skills and wisdom, this is a preliminary application for a position with your company. My goal is to help you tap deeper into your human capital by realizing the full potential of your current staff and to assist you in expanding your company’s bottom line. 
Adaptability, reliability, initiative, and loyalty are part of human nature. With improved hiring assessments, and analysis of current employee’s strengths and challenges, we will create more vibrant outcomes. Asking people if they are willing to take responsibility for their daily actions, taps into all your natural resources. 

Let’s build new momentum by weaving a strong spirit of connection. This strengthens the foundation for your ladder to success and fuels each step of the climb with character, discipline, and honest effort.

Thus today's inspiration while I was cruising through my LinkedIn profile. I've still not figured out what the fascination is with Facebook, LinkedIn, an especially Twitter, but just the same I check in to my accounts at the first 2 and avoid looking at anything Twitter daily.

"How did the landscape shift so drastically that integrity and accountability are no longer the prime objective?" 


When we left here a year ago, I was convinced by 2 friends that I seemed angry in my Posts. So I took a break and wrote 2 children's books. Nothing could be further from "angry" than the words and wisdom of Uncle XOQ. (Please keep coming back for more about his adventures and a link to buying a book about Uncle XOQ for the kids in your life.)

Instead of complaining about, and even at times raging about, the incredible lack of intelligence and common sense of most Americans, I set about contributing to the education of people through the insights of Uncle XOQ. 

This morning I took a break from all that and conjured up a Resume from 2010. It included the opening above and I was moved at the same time to Post here. After all, you can't spend so much time thinking about the details of publishing your first book, geared toward life lessons for kids of all ages, without coming up against the truth that there has been an incredible shift in my lifetime.

"Why is the well-being of a nation secondary to the almighty dollar?"

I refer you to one of today's headlines about Harry Reid saying he just doesn't understand Boehner's brain. Me neither.

Welcome back to Planet Robby!

Sunday, June 3, 2012

Santa's Brother


SantasBro.com 

We all know Santa Claus is a friendly and jolly man. His family would be very proud of him, because he gives away so many presents to kids around the world. 

Did you know Santa has a brother and that when he was a kid he also had 2 sisters? Isn't it a wonder that he has lived so long? How did his home and workshop end up at the North Pole?
It has been almost 500 years since the American Santa was born. If we could ask him, he might not remember much about being a kid. What happened to his Mom and Dad and the rest of his family*?
It’s fun to think about Santa when he was younger and all the places he’s been. We know his reindeer take him anywhere he needs to go. But in the old days, before he got to the North Pole and started the reindeer ranch and met the Elves, and opened his toy shop, he probably walked a lot.
How come Santa has lived so long? Many people and cultures tell stories about Santa. There are lots of books about him. Some people think he lives with his wife, Mrs. Claus. They don’t seem to have any kids of their own. This is probably because they are so busy working with the Elves and making toys.
It’s possible that Santa’s mother came from Europe across the Atlantic Ocean with Christopher Columbus in 1492. This is "another beginning" of Santa Claus and his brother. Nobody really knows, but if it’s true or not, it’s still a wonderful folk tale. 
It starts with a smiling baby girl who had no Mommy, on-board the sailing ship "Santa Maria." The little girl was taken care of by a teenager named Katerina, who had blond hair and blue eyes. Columbus’ crew also watched over the baby while they survived storms, huge waves, and many days without any wind. They baby giggled through it all and it gave them hope and faith that everything would be OK.
The Nina, the Pinta, and the Santa Maria were running out of fresh water and food the morning they saw land. The crew believed the baby girl was their good luck charm who made it possible for them to survive. The ships anchored offshore and when they rowed to land, they were greeted by the native people.
In a ceremony on the first day, the baby girl was christened “Santa Maria,” to celebrate the crew's good fortune at finding land so far away from home. Katerina and the Santa Maria stayed in the native village with a family whose baby had recently died, so the Mommy could feed it breast milk.
Life among the native children was filled with laughter and adventure for little Santa Maria. She grew up to be a beautiful young girl and all the warriors were captivated by her fair skin and doe-like eyes. Some of the boys tried to kiss her when no one was looking. But Santa Maria was saving her first kiss for a a boy named Kachada. He was handsome and strong, and had blue eyes too.
Kachada’s father was the Chief of the native people and his Mother was Katerina. The Chief had lost his wife the same year the ships had arrived and Columbus thought Katerina would be a perfect mate for the Chief. This made the Chief very happy and in his good mood he showed Columbus where the fresh water was, told the tribesmen to show them how to dive for shell fish, and gave them corn seeds.
Santa Maria’s love for Kachada grew, and when they were teenagers, Santa Maria and Kachada were married in a native ceremony. They had a love for sailing and often went out on the Chief’s sailboat to enjoy the ocean.
Two years later, they left the tribe, with the blessing of the Chief, crossed a smaller sea to the west, and found a bigger land mass. They sailed up an inter-coastal waterway, eventually joining another group of explorers.
Santa Maria and Kachada traveled north and inland with this party to discover the “Fountain of Youth” in what is now Florida. Ponce De Leon was the Spanish explorer in charge of this expedition.
After they settled in the area known today as St. Petersburg, they had 4 children, 2 girls and 2 boys. The boys played, swam, and dove in the magical water, while the girls stayed home learning to gather berries, sew, and cook. One day, there was a mournful cry in the new settlement, when Kachada was bitten by a poisonous snake and died.
After their Dad died, the boys spend many days away from the village looking for game. Later they would be away for weeks at a time, trapping, hunting with bows and arrows, and learning the ways of the local natives and the traders in north Florida. 
They eventually told Santa Maria that they wanted to find the big inland river the native people and white men often talked about. Santa Maria's youngest daughter, Santa Isabel, stayed with her Mom to help her heal from a broken heart and to teach school. Santa Isabel eventually opened an orphanage and is remembered as a generous, saintly woman. 
Santa Maria's oldest daughter, the beautiful but spoiled Santa Barbara, had been pampered by her Father Kachada. After he died, she soon married a wealthy fisherman Peter. It is told that their descendants found oil in the Gulf and were very greedy.
The 2 brothers traveled west and walked hundreds of miles, looking for the mighty river. When they reached its banks, they built a small sailboat, the way their Father had taught them, and headed north. It was a dangerous time to have blue eyes in the wilderness, but because they were friendly and knowledgeable about hunting and trapping, the natives along the river were not afraid of them. It is said that one of the brothers was named Santa Claus. 
There are many myths and legends about these 2 men. It was thought that they had magical powers. Like most stories repeated over and over through time, what we know now is part fact, part fiction, and certainly fantastic. With the natural ease and smiles of care-free travelers, they left behind a legacy of kindness every place they went. 
Many American villages, Inns, bars, seaports, and songs tell stories about 2 young men, training wild horses, teaching children to speak English, caring for the sick, and helping with the harvest. They would give anything, including the shirt off their backs, to the poor, and they spread the gifts of laughter and wisdom, and shared all the treasures they accumulated.
At some unknown point in their lives, the 2 men decided it was time to go forward alone. It is probably because Santa Claus liked the colder, rugged winters and wanted to explore the northern territories, but his brother preferred warmer deserts and southwestern red rocks. 
Santa Claus eventually made his way through the Rocky Mountains and the Pacific northwest into Canada. He went searching for the legendary land bridge from Alaska to Asia, but at some point got distracted and ended up at the northern-most seaport on the Arctic Ocean. It is told that he joined a summer whaling expedition. We can only imagine how he made it from that ship to his home at the North Pole.
Santa Claus' brother original name is lost to time. He seems to have traveled through the southwest to California, as there are stories handed down from the villages surrounding the Spanish Missions, about a bearded, jolly man who enjoyed sitting in the shade of the largest local trees, giggling with the local kids. They say he had boundless energy and was believed to be the first one to introduce a team game that featured kicking a pig bladder ball into a net.
Old fishing villages in California, Mexico, and Central America, all have stories about a man who seemed to appear out of nowhere, bringing good luck to the fisherman. He knew where huge schools of fish gathered around hidden reefs and taught them how to catch thousands using the same nets he made for the kick-the-ball game.
This same man seems to have sailed around Cape Horn on a small ship in an attempt to learn about his ancestors in Europe. We don’t know if he ever made it, but there is a folk tale on the island of Aruba about a man fitting the description of Santa's brother. They speak of this man splashing in the surf, entertaining families around nightly bonfires on the beaches with songs and stories of travel and adventures. He even learned their native language, Papiamento. 
The people gave him a local name, XOQ (pronounced Zok). He was lovingly referred to by young and old as Uncle XOQ; an easy to talk to, somewhat eccentric, ageless character. They don’t know where he came from, and they don’t know where he went. It all seems so familiar. (Research reveals that in Papiamento, the word XOQ means "crossing over.") 
This unusual man must certainly be Santa Claus' brother. The brothers longevity is attributed to their childhood spent in the waters of the Fountain of Youth. The sons of Santa Maria and Kachada still spread joy, hope, faith, compassion, and many other gifts. It is always delivered with a hardy HO! HO! HO!
*This “Santa family story” is new and recently written by Robby Hoffman's in Carlsbad, CA. It has never appeared anywhere before.   Copyright 2012.

Sunday, April 1, 2012

The Wizard of Oz

After Toto pulls back the curtain, the challenge for the grey haired Professor is to come up with solutions from his bag of tricks. A ticking clock represents a heart for the Tin Man, a diploma for the Straw Man's brain power, and a Medal of Honor to reward the Lion for his courage; all symbolic catalysts of transformation for Dorothy's crew.

As for the farm girl herself, one seemingly final disappoint rises above Emerald City's town square, as the fast talking Carnival Barker rises alone in his hot air balloon towards Kansas. It ultimately takes a trifecta of  realization, the magic red shoes, a wave of the wand from the Good Witch, and a simple repetitive mantra, to awaken Dorothy to the safety of her family and friends.

An awareness of the power of positive thinking has permeated American culture during the the past 20 years. Oprah's wealth, and Norman Vincent Peale notoriety, are all attributable to their invocation of age old principles. Simply stir into your life 3 magic ingredients; a passion for your goal, the recognition that thousands of average people have accomplished great things, and the determination to push through all road blocks never taking no for an answer, and success can be yours.

There is one other critical factor necessary to achieve and maintain momentum while staying the course. In sailing it is a steady wind, for without a breeze at your back no mastery of navigation will get you to the distant shore. In individual Olympic sports, personal coaches behind the scenes guide athletes through obstacles of fatigue, injury, nutrition, and years of repetitive workouts.

For the average person, few of us are fortunate enough to have a designated "driver" through the maze and obstacles of insecurities, lack of funds, education gaps, and/or road blocks of the mind, body, and spirit. Wouldn't it be grand if everybody had a Wizard, frantically turning the dials on a magic control panel, always there with a thought, a push, an idea, and a kind/free spirit.

Zoey and I are introducing Uncle XOQ to the world in 2012 as an approachable, lovable, off beat, wise Wizard who will offer up guidance, direction, and creative course corrections for kids of all ages. And he'll do it with a magical twinkle in his eye.

Stay Tuned!  

Saturday, March 17, 2012

Uncle XOQ

Uncle XOQ (pronounced Zok) is the fun, wise, off beat, approachable Uncle we all wish we had when we were kids.

Coming soon, just in time for the 2012 Holiday season and Autumn/Winter Birthdays, Uncle XOQ, in paperback and ebook will be on sale this year.

Zoey Stevens has started the illustrations for this first in a series of "Uncle XOQ" kids' books. Zoey's magical skills are putting a face to Uncle XOQ, his nephew, and the kids and adults in their world.

The "truth" of Uncle XOQ is his ability to make sense of the confusing challenges faced by all of us. Uncle XOQ dishes out his unique observations to his favorite nephew; a young teenager trying to find his voice and his identity.

With his off beat sense of humor, and a mind filled with quotes and sayings based on his interesting life experiences, Uncle XOQ is always available with answers, motivation, and clever ideas about how to get unstuck.

Giving this new book as a gift to kids of all ages, will be another beginning; a new way for you to connect with family and friends.

Keep an eye out for more insights into the Uncle XOQ story.

Uncle XOQ by Robby Hoffman
Illustrated by Zoey Stevens





Tuesday, February 21, 2012

See Beneath

February 19, 2012 ..... Carlsbad, CA

If you are reading this in the future, I trust the feeling of pride this Dad has for his son in this moment still radiates from this page. Three weeks into his Kickstarter campaign for Aiko & Egor, Casey and his team have $10,745 committed to their project. The "Assembly of Backers" includes family, friends, school-mates, autism professionals, and parents of the children who will directly benefit from the products See Beneath, Inc. will produce. These are all people Casey has touched, directly or indirectly, from as far back as 1986. They have taken the time to help make the goal of $12,000 attainable (or is it obtainable?).

I can't help but reflect on Casey's path to this moment, remembering each step of the journey and the decisions made about which college, what major, work study jobs, internship, first job out of university, and meeting Gerin and Jim to begin creating Aiko and Egor.

My philosophy can be distilled down to this: there are no mistakes in life if you learn from your experiences. I always tell Casey that each decision should be made with eyes wide open. Analyze the pluses and minuses, be intentional about considering your options, then choose with confidence in the moment knowing that the road ahead leads to valuable experiences, lessons, and ultimately more decisions built on a new collection of wisdom.

In the light of keeping this post simple and to the point, I'll end by sharing a moment on the sidewalk in front of my sister's home on Francisco St. in Berkeley: Casey on the right and Leland on the left. Taken during a visit with Frankie; James' wife and the mother of Leland. I met them while volunteering for the MS Society in the Bay Area. James eventually passed away from complications of MS and to thank me for my service, Frankie gave me one of my most treasured possessions: a full sized hour glass (see photo). The sands of time continue to flow and we all are simply a tiny grain on the surface of a beautiful planet.



Friday, January 27, 2012

Aiko & Egor

See Beneath, Inc. is a start-up non-profit company dedicated to producing educational tools for young autistic kids. It is the inspiration of three creative people: Casey Hoffman, Gerin Gaskin, and Jim Turner. Casey and Gerin are early childhood Interventionists and Jim is an artist. They saw a need and they went for it.

I admire them. I support them. I believe in them. I am going to put my money behind them by giving generously to their Kickstarter Project. I am requesting that you GIVE what you can afford.

Raising funds to offset the costs of producing their first DVD and to continue producing more episodes in the Aiko & Egor animated series is a big challenge. Casey and Gerin have spent 3 years, countless hours a week, sitting across from 2-3 year old kids with different degrees of attention deficits. As you can imagine, this work requires incredible patience and specific skills.

After full days of driving all over San Diego County to these kid's homes, interacting with frustrated parents, and making tiny, incremental progress at connecting with these toddlers, Casey and Gerin have also spent a year and a half of their evenings and weekends with a team of writers and animators producing the Pilot Episode of Aiko & Egor.

When you watch their first video, remember the simple goals of the creators: to grab and hold the attention of a young child with Autism and to maintain that connection while teaching core skills. Stop, look and listen is natural for a normal child; but not for kids with complicated attention deficit disorders.

Their research is supporting their work. The kids are mesmerized by "Aiko & Egor" and their undersea friends. The lessons are being communicated. It is the beginning of a series of DVD's that families can watch together while Mom and Dad, and brother and sister, can be part of a transformation.

Many of us have learned the importance of "see-ing beneath" the surface of human situations to uncover solutions. The name of Casey, Gerin, and Jim's new non-profit corporation clearly states the truth about their intention. They know that behind the veil of autism syndrome is a child waiting to be discovered.

Please help them help Autistic kids and their parents. Thanks!

Click here to Go To Kickstarter and PLEDGE your support.

Thank you so much for helping autistic kids and their families.




Wednesday, January 18, 2012

You Make Me Want to Be a Better Man*

As the football season reaches its climax, the political season is in full form. Jud forwarded this information about Thomas Jefferson and it once again proves the point about humans. We have forgotten more than we have learned.  


Thomas Jefferson was a very remarkable man. At 9, he studied Latin, Greek and French. At 16, he entered the College of William and Mary. At 19, he began his Law studies. At 23, he started his own law practice. At 25, he was elected to the Virginia House. At 32, he was a Delegate to the Second Continental Congress. 

At 33, he wrote the Declaration of Independence. At 33, he began revising Virginia's legal code and wrote a Public Education bill and a statute for Religious Freedom. At 36, he was elected the second Governor of Virginia At 40, he was elected to Congress. At 41, as the American minister to France, he negotiated commercial treaties with European nations along with Ben Franklin and John Adams. At 46, he served as the first Secretary of State under George Washington. At 53, he served as Vice President. At 55, he became the active head of Republican Party. 

At 57, he was elected the 3rd President of the United States. 

At 60, he orchestrated the Louisiana Purchase doubling the nation's size. At 61, he was elected to a second term as President. At 65, he retired to Monticello. At 80, he helped President Monroe shape the Monroe Doctrine. At 81, he created the University of Virginia and served as its first president. At 83, he died on the 50th anniversary of the Signing of the Declaration of Independence. 

Thomas Jefferson understood history and the nature of man. He is a voice from the past with a wake up call.

Read through these quotes from Thomas Jefferson and marvel and shiver at the truth:

"When we get piled upon one another in large cities, as in Europe, we shall become as corrupt as Europe."

"It is incumbent on every generation to pay its own debts as it goes. A principle which if acted on would save one-half the wars of the world."

"My reading of history convinces me that most bad government results from too much government."

"The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants."

"To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical."

"I believe that banking institutions are more dangerous to our liberties than standing armies. If the American people ever allow private banks to control the issue of their currency, first by inflation, then by deflation, the banks and corporations that will grow up around the banks will deprive the people of all property - until their children wake-up homeless on the continent their fathers conquered."

In the early 1960's, John F. Kennedy held a dinner in the White House for a group of the brightest minds in the nation at. JFK made this statement: 

"This is perhaps the assembly of the most intelligence ever to gather at one time in the White House with the exception of when Thomas Jefferson dined alone."

*"You make me want to be a better man."  As Good as it Gets, 1997, James Brooks